Of course, some conflict is normal and natural – sometimes even a sign of achieving  normal developmental milestones such as independence, critical thinking and negotiation skills. However there are some important signs to pay attention to as well, which may indicate bigger issues to address with professionals. Some things teens prefer not to share with their family members. Regardless of what brings teens into the therapy room, nearly all can benefit from therapy. A neutral source of support from a therapist can assist them to better think through their problems.

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• Any change in academic performance or motivation with school?

• Difficulty getting along with peers, teachers, coaches, parents of peers?

• More anger, irritability and disrespect?

• Socially and emotionally withdrawn – spending more time alone?

• Signs of experimentation with drugs, alcohol and/or sex secretly?

• Increased and ongoing tension and arguments with others or you?